For me, I think I fell in love with Hikaru's intelligence first, and then his kindness, and then his loyalty. [She was such an idiot back then.] His looks helped.
[ She feels really sad now. Okay maybe Lia wasn't the best person to talk relationships with.
She tries to change the topic. ]
Relationships probably aren't for everyone. I mean, it's not written on the rules anywhere or anything, right? Besides, I have a feeling that some boys don't even know what they want when it's staring them at the face.
[Smiling a little, and pouring another glass. The empty bottle dismisses itself, and is replaced by something else: Grey Goose Vodka.]
I think, though, that the most important thing somebody has to do before even considering being in a relationship is to stop needing one and be certain that they love themselves.
I don't think that term really suits us, given our relationship. Think of this more as the camaraderie between a master and her favorite student of the moment.
[ Hehe. She's not letting go of the fact that Lia referred to her as Lia's favorite student of the moment, but she won't press on. Just accept it as it is. ]
Sure! I'll drink to that. [ She raises up her glass and smiles. ]
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[Considering, then, especially since she can't really avoid the discussion now. It's always a little difficult to start.]
Falling in love with someone isn't all that hard to do. It's staying in love and staying happy that are the tricky parts.
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That's actually true, now that I think about it. But what would you say are the things that make you even like somebody?
[ Genuinely curious, cause she feels like she's liked people in the past for all the wrong reasons. ]
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[Hmm, hmm.]
For me, I think I fell in love with Hikaru's intelligence first, and then his kindness, and then his loyalty. [She was such an idiot back then.] His looks helped.
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Must be difficult to genuinely like someone for who they are, huh.
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[Trailing off, as she remembers exactly how things fell through. Why things fell through.
It was all for the best, but that did not do anything to ease the pain. The loss.]
Until it changes for the better, or until you have to let go in order for the two of you to move on to better things.
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She tries to change the topic. ]
Relationships probably aren't for everyone. I mean, it's not written on the rules anywhere or anything, right? Besides, I have a feeling that some boys don't even know what they want when it's staring them at the face.
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[Smiling a little, and pouring another glass. The empty bottle dismisses itself, and is replaced by something else: Grey Goose Vodka.]
I think, though, that the most important thing somebody has to do before even considering being in a relationship is to stop needing one and be certain that they love themselves.
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OOH GREY GOOSE! She sheepishly asks Lia if she can have some as well. ]
Yeah, I understand. That's a totally mature way to go about it. Otherwise you'll kind of be like... leaning on each other, right?
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Yes. It's the worst possible thing, and I hate all of this 'your lover should complete' you business. Modern bullshit.
[Scoffs.]
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She imitates Lia and scoffs as well. ]
Yeah, I really don't believe in that either. Some people should just... grow up.
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[Shrugs.]
As long as the general stupidity stays far, far away from me, I'm good.
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She smiles and takes a sip. ]
You and I have that in similar!
[ Welp, she doesn't want to be around to see Lia do something about it, should something generally stupid happens. Or does she... ]
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[Liandrin, at that moment, is the perfect picture of contentment.]
I think we should try to make this a regular thing.
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You mean... You wanna be friends? [ She says that with the biggest smile on her face. ]
Because I would really love that. And not just for the free alcohol, but for your company!
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[Deny, deny, deny.]
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Oh, that's okay. I like that word! Camaraderie.
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I rather like it myself. Now, shall we continue to apply copious amounts of alcohol to ourselves until you have to go home?
[Yeah, she is enjoying this.]
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Sure! I'll drink to that. [ She raises up her glass and smiles. ]